he lived with us for a week what more do you need

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There are some days that I'm looking for round two or three and he's running out into the garage to 'fix something' or 'off to do errands' because he can't keep up with me. He is beyond happy with this but I'm dying most days. Our sex life is great, better than most, we average about four to five times a week along with plenty of snuggling and cuddling as well. I am engaged to an amazing man who is no doubt my match sexually we're perfect - except that I'm the one who's always looking for some loving.

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I'm a 25-year-old, healthy, mother to a wonderful toddler, I work full time and go to school.

So I do my best to trust in a higher power and purpose and not feel despair at the very real thought that by the time I'm 35, I may never have sex again. Even when we were separated for 6 weeks (job move) and reunited, I had to ask for it. There is no pornography issue, he's only had three sexual partners in his life, he's fantastic at sex, says I'm very satisfying - but he only needs to be satisfied once a month. My husband has nearly no interest, does not notice if I'm naked, states he doesn't ever think about sex, refuses to see this as a legitimate problem, and if I'm to try to get him there, there is a laundry list of factors that have to be aligned for him: tired? work stress? comfy bedding? smelly breath? kids distracted? I'm not sure how quickly we got here, but for at least the past few years I'm lucky to get lucky twice a month. At first I thought it was my orgasm issues, then I thought it was his anti-anxiety meds, but he's been off those for over a year and there's been no change. I've been married 5 years to a man that's 12 years older than me (he's 40, I'm 28) and sex has nearly always been an issue. We are each others' best friend just not compatible lovers. In total we have been together 20 years and married almost 11. Now that we have completed my our family I don't know if we will ever have sex again. It was well over a year if no sex with our last child. He wouldn't have sex while I was pregnant with each of our children. It doesn't fill the need, although sometimes I just enjoy the pleasure without the hassle and have to fantasize that my husband enjoys pleasing me. He bought me a vibrator so I would be happy and leave him alone. My husband doesn't respond to pressure, hates talking about it and it is a cause of stress on our marriage. I have tried making his favorite meals, doing a week's worth of really nice things to get him in a happy state of mind, wearing sexy clothes and lingerie - it doesn't work. We have sex a couple of times a year and sometimes it might be twice a week for a week and then nothing for months at a time. have had a difference in desire from my husband for about the last 11 years or more. I'm learning to accept that I am just going to have to be the aggressor 95 percent of the time.

But even that doesn't occur without a reminder. I would be happiest with intimate contact every day of the week, but I've tried to compromise to every other day. If I didn't speak up, I'm sure a month could just pass by without any intimacy at all.

No woman wants to always take the initiative. I can't understand how six or seven days can go by, and sex just never happens. It's frustrating to me that he isn't on the same page as me when it comes to sex. We should still have a decent sexual drive. He's too tired, or too sore, or just 'not in the mood.' We are a recently married couple, in our late 20's. Unfortunately, he doesn't have the same ideas. But after our daughter has gone to bed, I like to set aside everything and be intimate with my husband. We are both tired, stressed, sore, and overworked by the end of the day. My husband works 10 hour shifts, 6 days a week.